Dear working-girl, you spend a good part of your time at work, surrounded by your wonderful colleagues and your boss. We bet you dream of working on yourself, enjoying your job and having a successful career? If those ambitions ring a bell, then you've come to the right place! Here you'll find our best tips and advice for career progression.
It's where we spend the majority of our time, so it's important that we feel good about it. Here we cover a multitude of subjects, from relationships with your boss, with your boss to ambitions, stress or burn-outs. Discover our advice and everything you need to blossom in your job and assert yourself.
'Never allow a person to tell you no, who doesnāt have the power to say yes.'
- Eleanor Roosevelt
Life is full of unexpected things. Sometimes we have nice surprises, sometimes we experience traumatic events. The latter can lead to what we call an āadjustment disorderā. I experienced this when my mother died. The shock was so immense that I couldnāt cope anymore. If you feel like youāre going through a very difficult period after a shock, you may also be affected by adjustment disorder. Letās talk about it.
Getting involved in a romantic relationship can bring back many painful memories, which may prevent you from experiencing new things in your emotional life. Fear of loving, committing, being abandoned, feeling betrayed, suffering: these are all ideas that can fuel your fears. Hereās our advice on how to overcome this fear of relationships, also known as philophobia. Let me explain.
In the dating world, thereās a word for everything. Thatās how I came to learn the name of something very unpleasant that happened to me several years ago. Iād been on a few Tinder dates, things were going well, but from one day to the next Iād heard nothing. I wasnāt in love, so it was fine. However, I found it hard to move on, because he couldnāt stop looking at my Instagram stories and following me keenly... Itās called orbiting. Why do this? How do you react to this behavior?
Now, narcissists are known for demonstrating a worrying lack of empathy along with deviously manipulative traits, oh, and before I forget to mention it, HUGE egos too š. Yes, thatās right, they love spending hours looking in the mirror and being told how fabulous they are. To put it in other words, people with this personality disorder are firmly in love with themselves, to the point of being totally obsessed with their so-called perfection, but the question is, can they put their self-admiration aside enough to become preoccupied with someone else? If, on the other hand, you're looking to get a narcissist hooked on you, you're in the right place with these tips.
You're probably thinking that once a narcissist has upped sticks and fled, he'll never dare to show his face again, however, quite the opposite is true. The reality is that these folks are like bad smells, there's no getting rid of them quickly, therefore regardless of all the pain, hurt, and trauma they've put their victims through, they'll always make a comeback, just to prove that they are still in control šØ. In fact, no matter how much time has passed, these torturous monsters will always eventually rear their ugly heads, just to get in that one last vicious blow. Discover which 10 circumstances they'll decide to show up in their exes' lives.
The other day, I was sitting in a restaurant with a friend when I saw a waiter arrive with a birthday cake for the next table. The scene gave me a feeling of dread! Generally speaking, I hate this kind of surprise, especially if thereās an audience around. I know Iām not the only one who feels this way, and as I know a thing or two about psychology, Iāll explain.
One day, I was chatting with a friend when she explained that she had started using the PERMA method. At first, I thought she was talking to me about gardening (permaculture š¬), but not at all. I looked into it by reading several books and articles to discover that itās an approach to feeling happier. I wanted to talk to you about it, is it really a way to achieve happiness and well-being? Let me explain.
Crying in front of an advert? Done ā . Being disturbed by the slightest noise? Of course ā . Not being able to deal with negative emotions? Sure ā . All hypersensitive people experience this on a daily basis. At least, I do. Yes, Iām part of team emotions! Itās already difficult for me, so when Iām in a relationship, I know my partnerās lost. So Iāve written a little guide to help people who live with a hypersensitive person on a daily basis.
Iām one of those people who doesnāt put work at the center of my life. On the other hand, I have a friend who does, to the point where her body gives out regularly. Clearly, her work is her raison dāĆŖtre and she gives everything. Perhaps a little too much. Thatās why I wanted to write this article, to remind her to be careful! Maybe it will help you too, especially if you feel that your careerās taking up all the space in your life.
āWhich folder do I need to put these videos in again? And how does it work to do the videos? Can you help me? Iām really struggling...ā. I think weāve all encountered these words and this kind of situation at work. Sometimes people really are lost, sometimes you get the feeling that theyāre lacking motivation and that they just donāt want to do it. And thatās precisely what strategic incompetence is. Why is this a problem? Iāll explain all.
