Rosie Harlow - Editor

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Rosie Harlow - Editor

Writing has always been my therapy, and for as long as I can remember I have always used paper as a punching bag. I need to carve out time just for me, I never get bored, and nothing pleases me more than imagining, thinking, and reflecting. I am passionate about all topics, but I naturally gravitate toward themes centered on love and relationships.

ā¤ļø A little Dr Love? Maybe so, but what I really like is understanding how simple encounters can upset us, change us, push us to surpass ourselves or... traumatize us too. How feelings are born and what they do to us. And when we talk about love, we talk about sex, and on this subject too, with me, there's no taboo!

šŸ“– As for my work, I've always wanted to make a living from book publishing. I don't think I've ever dreamed of doing another job... except that, in the team, I'm not the one who stands out for great professional ambition. My career in publishing ended up flopping, but, all the same, I ended up joining the Wengo team in 2016.

ā­ My dream of happiness: Rediscovering the world through the eyes of a child

ā­ My heroes: All the people who have a thousand lives in one and are able to start from scratch to live the next one.

  • Education: Master's degree in Publishing.
  • Experience: 3 years
  • Profession: Editor for Wengood
  • Skills: Writing and cooking.
  • Points of reference: Strong women with flaws.

Get to know who made up the Wengood editorial team, visit our about us page.

Read our latest articles here:

5 Scary Things A Narcissist Smear Campaign Involves

We hear so much about these emotional abusers in every walk of life that we are sometimes so overloaded with information regarding them, meaning we often miss the red flags that, in hindsight, seem blatantly obvious. These vindictive manipulators often use smear campaigns as a way of getting back at their victims and villainizing them publicly. That's right, these evil campaigns are an effective method for them to change the narrative of the abuse, and to present themselves as victims, when in reality they are the perpetrators of the terror.

Are Narcissists Lonely?

Loneliness is one of societyā€™s biggest enemies, and none of us are exempt from it, not even the most devilish of narcissists out there. In fact, throughout the Coronavirus pandemic, 36% of Americans claimed that they have never felt lonelier, which sets a scary benchmark for the wider population šŸ˜”. Now, lots of us would no doubt immediately assume that narcissists are too independent and strong-willed to feel alone, however, the truth is they are often the biggest victims of loneliness, yet simply have trouble expressing their inner malaise.

Why Do I Feel Bad When People Donā€™t Message Me Back?

Friday night rolls around and after a hard week you were expecting to have a drink with a girlfriend, but she seems to have left you hanging on read... To make matters worse (and the humiliation?) you even saw the little typing sign appear, yet you never received a reply. Well, if thatā€™s the case, obviously you or your "how about a drink tonight?" didnā€™t deserve an answer. Letā€™s take a look at why some people don't reply to messages, and why when someone doesn't reply to your text, this makes us feel so bad.

How To Get Revenge On A Narcissist?

Narcissistic abuse is one of the most horrific challenges anyone can ever go through in life, but thatā€™s not to say that their reign of terror will last forever. Evidently, breaking the cycle of abuse isnā€™t exactly straightforward, however, once the discard phase has been activated and victims realize that they can walk away with their heads held high, the revenge phase can commence šŸ˜ˆ. Unsurprisingly, getting even with a raging egocentric narcissist needs to be carefully planned, but ironically, their self-centered personalities expose to many axes of revenge, which will evidently really get to themā€¦

What Happens When A Narcissists Loses Control? These 10 Things...

You probably know by now that narcissists only ever look for one thing and one thing only; and thatā€™s control! Whether in their personal or professional life, folks with this personality disorder need to be in the driving seat and the one calling the shots, otherwise all hell breaks loose. šŸ˜Ø Although their cunning and manipulative nature means they are often hard to escape, it is still possible to turn the tables on them and take the upper hand. Yet, youā€™ll need a thick skin to do so because when they feel their power slipping away, they become even more dangerous and abusive; hereā€™s how they react when that happens.

Female Covert Narcissists

Itā€™s time to set the record straight, although male narcissists typically get a lot of flack, yet, female covert narcissists are just, if not even more dangerous than the guys. These women are the definition of devious and know how to wrap people around their little fingers without anyone ever really catching on to their behavior and conniving ways. šŸ¦¹ā€ā™€ļø They are a force to be reckoned with and certainly never back down from the challenge of breaking someoneā€™s soul. Here are insights into how to identify a female covert narcissist and how to deal with one.

The 10 Weak Points Of A Narcissist Revealed

Each one of us has our own weaknesses that hold us back in life; be it at work or in relationships. However, on a more positive note, most of us have the will to work on them and transform them. That being said, once narcissists are brought into the picture, the idea that they want to work on their weaknesses doesnā€™t exactly seem feasible. For a deeper understanding of these narcissists and more insights into the workings of their minds, discover their weak spots and which pointers they struggle with on a daily basis, yet aren't willing to admit or work on šŸ‘Ž.

10 Weird Things Narcissists Do Sexually - Romance Is Dead

As with many things in life, narcissists also have unhealthy relationships with sex and treat it as nothing more than a self-gratifying activity. After all, manipulation, control, and emotional abuse are their so-called trusty weapons that they hide behind in most circumstances, so why wouldnā€™t they call on them in the bedroom too? The bottom line is people with this personality disorder are used to getting what they want and will only ever put themselves and their pleasure first, which doesnā€™t bode well for a healthy sex life. šŸ™ˆ Discover the weird things narcissists do in the bedroom and what you should do if you are involved with one.

What Is Candaulism?

Now, many of you are no doubt scratching your head wondering what candaulism means, but some of you must already know by now, and that would explain the recent spike in Google searches for the term. Candaulism is in fact a sexual practice in which a man exposes his female partner or photos of her, to other consenting people. This particular fantasy is therefore associated with exhibitionism. Although thatā€™s not all, the term can also apply to a male partner watching his girlfriend or wife making love to someone else. So, letā€™s take a peep (get it?) at this practice.

Are Narcissists Insecure?

There is no denying that narcissistic personalities display some deeply worrying and disturbing traits, but what if these devious traits were just a means of protection? What if they were in fact a complete facade, fabricated to keep people away, in the hope of hiding their deepest darkest insecurities? šŸ˜± After all, everyone has weak spots, even the most confident and put together of people, so why wouldnā€™t a narcissist deal with the same niggling doubts as everyone else? It's time we got to the bottom of this and discovered why these folks are so insecure.



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  14. What A Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong
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  15. With Or Without YouU2
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