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Is Working With Your Partner A Good Or Bad Idea?

Sharing everything with your partner is a sign of a healthy relationship for some people, even when it comes to working. However, that being said, for others, working with their partner just seems like a bad idea and the perfect recipe for tension. Do we need to separate our personal and professional lives, or is it okay to blur the lines and mix everything? After all, what could do wrong? Find out how to cope when your significant other is also your coworker!

Why Do I Want To Seduce Everyone? Compulsive Seduction Explained

Is the gaze and approval of others essential for you? Are you incapable of saying no? Do you do everything you can to get yourself noticed? This excessive need to please may well be indicative of a profound uneasiness. Why do you need to feel validated by other people so much? And how can you free yourself from this oppressing tendency? We reveal everything you need to know for a more straightforward lifestyle.

I Never Thought Iā€™d Say This, But I Hate Working From Homeā€¦

Work has always been a synonym of repression for me because it takes up so much of our precious time. Letā€™s be honest, a 9-5 job with a horrendous daily commute often means that work is sadly our sole occupation. So, when the Covid-19 pandemic struck over a year ago, and we were all ordered to stay home, I found it hard to hide my joy in front of my distraught coworkers; although thankfully my acting talents saved me. You can probably already tell, but going into the office every day was nothing less than torture for me. Yet, all these months later, Iā€™ve realized that I despise working from home and would do anything to sit in my uncomfortable office chair once again!

I Hate My Job

I wonā€™t lie, work has never been my greatest passion, but recently my hatred for my job has increased, to the point where it's unhealthy. I bet you want to hear about my current super routine, right? Well, it consists of waking up super early and taking the cramped subway to get to a place I canā€™t stand. Once I arrive at the office, I then spend my time working on projects that bore the life out of me in between staring at my phone and my watch. Roll on 5pm! Youā€™re probably asking; whereā€™s the fulfillment in all of this? And you're right to do so! The satisfaction I was supposed to feel has probably got lost amongst the hundreds of painstaking daily emailsā€¦ The truth is, I feel stuck, and this definitely isnā€™t what I signed up for!

Can A Narcissist Change?

If youā€™ve ever had the pleasure or in this case displeasure to meet someone with narcissistic tendencies, youā€™ll probably already have a firm opinion on the question above. Indeed, folks with this particular mental health condition lack empathy, have inflated egos, and can be extremely harmful to our mental health. The truth is, their toxic personality traits are so deeply ingrained in them, that embarking on the process of changing and becoming better people is an extremely difficult mission for them. Most experts would agree that in the majority of cases, it is in fact mission impossible, so without further ado, here is why change is so unlikely in people with NPD (narcissistic personality disorders).

My Sister Is Jealous Of Me

ā€œIn any case, youā€™re the favorite.ā€ Iā€™ve heard this phrase coming from my sisterā€™s mouth over and over again. For a long time, her jealousy spoiled our lives, but I only wanted one thing: for us to be close and united. She poured her resentment in my face for many years until it got out of control. I couldnā€™t stand feeling so much anger and guilt at the same time. Soothing 30 years of jealousy hasnā€™t been easy, but there are ways to avoid getting to that point. I didnā€™t want jealousy to cut me off from my sister!

What Is The 333 Rule For Anxiety And Panic Attacks? It's A Soothing Technique

I want to be completely open and honest with you, so letā€™s get started. Anxiety has dominated my life for the past 5 years and has been at the root of countless panic attacks and bouts of intense stress šŸ˜Ÿ. Youā€™ve probably guessed it, but it has had a devastating impact on my mental health and has therefore changed my life for the worst. Now, Iā€™m not here for a pity party, but instead of focusing on the negative sides of this condition, I want to share the most effective tip Iā€™ve found when it comes to feeling less anxious and reducing panic attacks; so without further ado, letā€™s take a look at the 3-3-3 rule.

Are Narcissists Insecure?

There is no denying that narcissistic personalities display some deeply worrying and disturbing traits, but what if these devious traits were just a means of protection? What if they were in fact a complete facade, fabricated to keep people away, in the hope of hiding their deepest darkest insecurities? šŸ˜± After all, everyone has weak spots, even the most confident and put together of people, so why wouldnā€™t a narcissist deal with the same niggling doubts as everyone else? It's time we got to the bottom of this and discovered why these folks are so insecure.

What Does Narcissistic Abuse Feel Like?

Narcissistic abuse is truly one of the most crushing and soul-destroying trials anyone can go through. When we are subjected to such intense emotional manipulation at the hands of someone we believe cares for us, our mental health certainly takes a hit, and we can even lose our sense of reality and end up thinking that we are the problem. Abusive relationships come in all forms; whether they are romantic, friendship based or occur in a professional setting, they are all equally damaging and agonizing. As someone who has experienced this type of abuse first-hand with my ex-boyfriend, I want to share with you what it feels like.

Is My Coworker A Narcissist?

Now, I donā€™t want to make you paranoid, but the truth is that narcissists are everywhere, and thatā€™s why itā€™s so important to be able to spot them and their devious ways. So, with that in mind, why wouldn't there be a narcissist lurking in the office? Has that given you food for thought, and suddenly got your mind racing? Who is your number one suspect? Is it Jon; the guy who constantly hogs the photocopier, or perhaps even Emma; the backstabbing human resources manager? In any case, knowing how to identify these personalities is essential, so discover the 10 deplorable behavioral signs you need to look out for. Youā€™ll never look at your coworkers in the same way again!

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5 Tips to Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Embrace the Unknown!

Iā€™m starting to get tired of the routine and daily grind. Yet, Iā€™m hesitant to step out of my comfort zone and take the leap. My bubble is reassuring, and so far, Iā€™ve thrived in it, but I no longer want to be held back by the fear of trying new things. Stepping out of your comfort zone brings many benefits, so how can you dare to take the plunge? Here are 5 tips to get started! šŸ’Ŗ

New Yearā€™s Resolutions: Choose Them Wisely or Give Yourself a Break!

We tend to think of New Year as a sort of fresh start, making it the perfect time to break a bad habit and adopt a better one. After all, we all want to be better, so itā€™s natural to want to make good resolutions to bring about change. But what happens when we donā€™t stick to them? After years and years of watching t-shirts pile up because ā€œthis year, Iā€™m starting to exerciseā€ and never following through, hello, sense of failure! So, what do we do with New Yearā€™s resolutions? Do we choose better ones or just forget about them altogether? šŸ„³

What is Neuroatypicality? Why Is It Being Talked About?

If thereā€™s one article I was eager to write for Wengood, itā€™s this one. Iā€™m part of whatā€™s called the ā€œneuro-Aā€ community, in other words, ā€œneuroatypicalā€ individuals. It might be a term youā€™ve heard before without really knowing what it means. So, what is neuroatypicality or neurodivergence? Is it an illness? A personality trait? A way of functioning? If youā€™re asking yourself these questions, youā€™re in the right placeā€”Iā€™m here to answer them.

Intermittent Explosive Disorder: When Anger Becomes Destructive

Intense anger outbursts, disproportionate verbal and physical aggressionā€¦ These are all signs that may indicate intermittent explosive disorder (IED). I know what Iā€™m talking about because someone in my family has it. For a long time, I struggled to understand their explosive anger reactions. I think they themselves didnā€™t know why they reacted that wayā€¦ until they were diagnosed. Let me explain.

How to Dare to Approach Others? 7 Tips to Follow

The big introvert that I am has long struggled to approach others. Itā€™s true that taking a step toward someone isnā€™t easy, especially when youā€™re dealing with additional challenges: introversion, lack of self-confidence, social anxietyā€¦ Having experienced all of this myself, but having made progress over the past few years, I have a few tips to share with you so that you too can come out of your shell. Letā€™s get started!

The Psychological Impact of a Burglary: How to Overcome It?

If Iā€™ve never experienced a burglary as an adult, I did go through it during my childhood. I remember the uneasy feeling of knowing that strangers had entered our home. I kept wondering if they would come backā€¦ The psychological impact of a burglary should not be underestimated. What does it trigger? How can one overcome the feelings of fear and insecurity? Let me share my thoughts with you.

Is Working With Your Partner A Good Or Bad Idea?

Sharing everything with your partner is a sign of a healthy relationship for some people, even when it comes to working. However, that being said, for others, working with their partner just seems like a bad idea and the perfect recipe for tension. Do we need to separate our personal and professional lives, or is it okay to blur the lines and mix everything? After all, what could do wrong? Find out how to cope when your significant other is also your coworker!

My Sister Is Jealous Of Me

ā€œIn any case, youā€™re the favorite.ā€ Iā€™ve heard this phrase coming from my sisterā€™s mouth over and over again. For a long time, her jealousy spoiled our lives, but I only wanted one thing: for us to be close and united. She poured her resentment in my face for many years until it got out of control. I couldnā€™t stand feeling so much anger and guilt at the same time. Soothing 30 years of jealousy hasnā€™t been easy, but there are ways to avoid getting to that point. I didnā€™t want jealousy to cut me off from my sister!

How Do Narcissistic People Treat Their Children?

Growing up with narcissistic parents is certainly no easy feat, because, let's face it, people with this disorder are unsympathetic, selfish, manipulative, egotistical, and dishonest, yes, that's right, these traits aren't exactly those showcased by the parents of the year. Realistically, these folks simply don't have the basic qualities required to become good parents, which is why, when they choose to have a family, things often spin out of control, and the narcissistic abuse undoubtedly crushes children's mental health.

Why Do I Want To Seduce Everyone? Compulsive Seduction Explained

Is the gaze and approval of others essential for you? Are you incapable of saying no? Do you do everything you can to get yourself noticed? This excessive need to please may well be indicative of a profound uneasiness. Why do you need to feel validated by other people so much? And how can you free yourself from this oppressing tendency? We reveal everything you need to know for a more straightforward lifestyle.



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  4. Beautiful DayU2
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  5. Thinking out LoudEd Sheeran
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  6. White FlagDido
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  7. Lay Me DownSam Smith
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  8. Nine Million BicyclesKatie Melua
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  9. Put Your Records OnCorinne Bailey Rae
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  10. Summertime SadnessLana Del Rey
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  12. Shake It OutFlorence + The Machine
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  13. Space Oddity - Love You Til Tuesday versionDavid Bowie
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  14. What A Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong
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  15. With Or Without YouU2
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  17. Don't Stop Me NowQueen
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